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Something that is popping up in many of our interactions with parents in Tennessee is the idea that their student has test anxiety. Whether parents like it or not, when they hear what it takes to go to college or even receive college scholarships, the reality is that part of how children are getting into great schools and receiving scholarships is often determined by test scores.
But what is also a reality is that if we don’t recognize the anxiety that our students have and deal with on a regular basis in testing, we might be missing a great opportunity. What I am afraid of that I often hear parents doing in our sessions, is making excuses for their children when it comes to testing and test anxiety.
While I am not saying tests are the end all be all to a child’s life, testing is where a parent can help a child tackle a challenging life experience (the test) and begin to see tests not as a hindrance, but as an opportunity to overcome. The more a child sees testing as an opportunity and not a “drag,” the better a student excels at taking tests.
I don’t know about you, but I feel good and gain confidence in myself after I have prepared a presentation or delivered information to a group of people, overcome any fears that I have and receive a positive evaluation back from it. I remember the students and graduate students in my classes through school who always seemed to do really well on the tests we were given regularly, and their attitudes towards their testing was of confidence and they always rose to the occasion. So to me, as long as I can remember, it wasn’t the test that was so intimidating in school as it was the “build up” to it and my own approach and attitude to how I would or would not conquer the “test” that was put before me either brought about confidence or anxiety.
Realistically, many of us have anxieties about a lot of things. And while many folks might not, like me, connect tests to life, if our children are having anxiety about test taking, how can we help them overcome that anxiety and learn valuable lessons that when their life is tough or when they are required to meet expectations in the future, they can face them with tools that lead to success and confidence.
You see, anxiety is the fear that something bad might happen and as I have learned it is rarely the fear of something that is life-thretening. Anxiety is usually the fear of the unknown; in other words, anxiety is fear provoked by one's own mind. So what we have to help children realize is that if they can see the test not as something that is dangerous, but as something they can face head on, what other challenges will this translate to in their lives?
I’m not saying test taking is the only way we can help teach children how to overcome their fears, but it really is good way, I think. While I wholeheartedly believe that students must be prepared and have studied hard to reach their fullest potential on a test, I also realize and suffer from anxiety about a lot of things in my own life and recognize there are techniques that children can learn to overcoming test anxieties: The American School Counselor Association suggests these 6 things parents can discuss with their students when it comes to test anxiety:
I also have found this test taking website, full of test ideas, helpful provided by the U.S. Department of Education. Let’s not run or be fearful of test taking for the sake of keeping our children safe, instead, let’s be bold and help our children learn how to face test taking with confidence and dignity.
Posted on September 19, 2012 by Ryan M. Tracy
Ryan is the Tennessee Family Engagement Manager for Stand for Children, a grassroots national advocacy organization. He designs and implements family engagement programs and is currently a leader in the organization's 10-week Stand UP (University for Parents) which focuses on curriculum of the home and school. Follow Ryan on Twitter.
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